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I keep ticket stubs: movies, concerts, sporting events, if I’ve been there, I kept it.<\/span> <\/span><\/span>I can tell you from experience that movie tickets don’t last well, but that most concert tickets are still fresh years later.<\/span> <\/span><\/span>Some of the stubs are laughable now; in fact the <\/span>only<\/span><\/i><\/span> laughable thing about the Jason Biggs movie <\/span>Loser<\/span><\/i><\/span> is that it was my first date.<\/span> <\/span><\/span>Others are still quite moving; the most emotional one I have is from a Tuesday night Angels vs. Mariners game.<\/span> <\/span><\/span>The date of the game?<\/span> <\/span><\/span>September 11<\/span>th<\/span><\/sup>, 2001.<\/span> <\/span><\/span>I still remember planning to go to that game with a few co-workers, and I remember going to it a month later when the game was rescheduled.<\/span> <\/span><\/span>I don’t remember who won (although considering their records at the time I suspect the M’s did) but I remember how nice it was to be back at Angel Stadium.<\/span> <\/span><\/span>There’s a certain peace that comes from a baseball game—it’s that peace that some in the ADD-generation misinterpret as boredom.<\/span> <\/span><\/span>Not to get all <\/span>Field of Dreams<\/span><\/i><\/span> on ya but there’s a consistency to baseball, a timelessness that is comforting to me in times of hardship.<\/span> <\/span><\/span>It’s why I expect to begin to recover from the Nick Adenhart tragedy by, strangely enough, going to a game.<\/span> <\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n I didn’t know Nick Adenhart personally.<\/span> <\/span><\/span>We didn’t go to the same high school, he didn’t play for Long Beach State.<\/span> <\/span><\/span>I didn’t know a guy who knew a guy who was friends with him, and we never ended up at the same party.<\/span> <\/span><\/span>And yet I am deeply saddened by his passing.<\/span> <\/span><\/span>And I’d be sad anytime I hear about a 22-year-old killed by a drunk driver; but this is different. <\/span> <\/span><\/span>It’s deeper, it’s closer to home.<\/span> <\/span><\/span>One hundred and ten people in the US are going to die today in a car accident, a lot of them due to drinking and driving; will we remember that the next time we go to the bar with some friends?<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n But this one is deeper because baseball is the sports-soundtrack to our lives.<\/span> <\/span><\/span>It’s there almost every evening, and during summer afternoons.<\/span> <\/span><\/span>And Nick was one of the newest cuts on the soundtrack.<\/span> <\/span><\/span>We saw him last season come up and struggle; we saw him come back this year, dust himself off, and throw a beauty on Wednesday night.<\/span> <\/span><\/span>He was supposed to be there for us for years to come.<\/span> <\/span><\/span>There’s an attachment we all develop towards celebrities, especially athletes, because we see them so often.<\/span> <\/span><\/span>We see a lot of them more often than we see our own friends.<\/span> <\/span><\/span>This isn’t about whether or not they are role models, this is about a natural human thing to develop attachments to people that we see often, even if we don’t know them personally.<\/span> <\/span><\/span>It’s why we remember Hank Gathers, Len Bias, Roberto Clemente, and the countless others who were a part of our lives and then taken away.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n Whenever sometime this tragic happens, we are left with so many questions. <\/span>How did this happen?<\/span> <\/span><\/span>Why did this happen?<\/span><\/i><\/span> <\/span> <\/span><\/span>During the game yesterday, Vin Scully—who has seen more baseball than I will ever dream of—addressed the incident briefly but to the point: “Don’t even waste your time questioning why things like that happen.”<\/span> <\/span><\/span>This clearly is a man who has seen his share of tragedy and he knows the questions that so many of us are stuck with, the unanswerable questions that we 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